i have the right – to have my own feelings
i have the right – to refuse a date without feeling guilty
i have the right – to make decisions based on my own feelings
to wear clothes and make-up i like
without being treated respectless or accused of
i have the right – to have my limits respected
to have my wants and needs respected
to say ‚yes‘ or ‚no‘ without explaining myself
i have the right – to refuse intimacy anytime
to have equal relationships
to be quiet or assertive and not be misunderstood
i have the right – to change my mind and goals whenever i want to
to ask for what i want
to be happy
self esteem
without justifying myself
in the face of a looming war
i refuse standing still in the eyes of storms
i refuse to get misleaded and trapped
in a role of fear-and-decent based education
i feel myself – behind wire fences
it’s my right of self determination
of physical and mental integrity
it’s not me to blame for it
to justify
it’s you (to take responsibility)
all the walls i strike my head against
are based on the expression
of my anger regarding gender opression and rape
disparity
inequality
integrity
assignment
obligation
deviation
consent
inviolability
